Wellbeing
Doctors
Help me, I’m a Doctor
Financial support for doctors and their families – bringing together five independent charities that can provide financial support for doctors when they need confidential financial assistance. These benevolent funds provide vital support to help doctors in genuine financial need get their lives and careers back on track.
NHS Practitioner Health
The NHS GP Health Service is a confidential NHS service for GPs and GP trainees in England. The GP Health Service can help doctors with issues relating to a mental health concern, including stress or depression, or an addiction problem, in particular where these might affect work. To read a letter from the Clinical Lead & Practitioner for NHS Practitioner Health please click HERE , or click on the link above to to to the NHS Practitioner Health website.
Doc Health: a new confidential support service for doctors
Doctors battling stress-related anxiety and depression will have access to a new specialist-led support service, a joint venture from the RMBF and the British Medical Association (BMA). It is a self-referral service available to all doctors in the UK, and aims to provide confidential, specialist-led support for those suffering with stress-related depression or anxiety. The programme will initially run as a 24-month pilot, and aims to complement existing support services such as BMA Counselling and the Doctor Advisor Service.
The Cameron Fund
The Cameron Fund is the only medical benevolent charity which solely supports general practitioners and their dependents. We provide support to GPs and their families in times of financial need, whether through ill-health, disability, death or loss of employment. We help those who are already suffering from financial hardship and those who are facing it.
The Sick Doctors Trust
The Sick Doctors Trust is an independent charitable trust, established in 1996. They provide early intervention and treatment for doctors suffering from addiction to alcohol or other drugs, thus protecting patients while offering hope, recovery and rehabilitation to affected colleagues and their families. The Trust welcomes enquiries from any source and are happy to take anonymous calls and to talk to colleagues or members of the family of a doctor who is experiencing problems. They operate a 24 hour telephone helpline on 0370 4445163 and are supported by donations from Kent LMC.
Royal Medical Benevolent Fund
The RMBF provides support for doctors and their families through all stages of their career and beyond. Our help ranges from financial assistance in the form of grants to a telephone befriending scheme for those who may be isolated and in need of support.
You Okay Doc? support Doctors’ Mental Health
You Okay Doc? support Doctor’s Mental Health through services like The Huddle, but also empowering Doctors’ Wellbeing through bespoke mental and emotional health aids.
KCC Release the Pressure Mental Health Support
Free expert advice from trained counsellors is available for every mental health concern, including:
- anxiety
- depression
- low self-esteem
- money worries
- relationship troubles
- stress
- suicidal thoughts
Mediation:
The BMA support GP partnerships through when disagreements arise between partners. They offer free mediation as part of BMA membership BMA Interpersonal mediation service for GP partners in dispute
Counselling:
Dover Counselling Centre
Dover Counselling Centre is a charitable organisation that offers an Employee Counselling Service for organisations that contract with us for their staff, as well as Training and Consultation to businesses and other agencies throughout Kent and beyond. The Centre offers both face to face and telephone counselling to staff who can contact us by telephone or email.
For further information please email Angie Wiggins, General Manager at Dover Counselling Centre (awiggins@dovercc.org.uk or angiewiggins@nhs.net), telephone 01304 204123 or visit http://www.dovercc.org.uk/
Training Hub support for wellbeing and resilience at work
Please click on the link to see the training hub support available: Kent & Medway Primary Care Training Hub
Practice Staff
Supporting the wellbeing and mental health of staff in primary care – guidance for staff and managers
Primary Care Managers Psychological Wellbeing Guidance
Primary Care Staff Psychological Wellbeing Guidance
Employee Assistance Programme (EAP)
The ICB has recommissioned the Employee Assistance Programme for all staff within the system including General Practice, and it has new functions. CiC brings a wealth of experience and has already reassured NHS Kent and Medway about the safety and confidentiality of the services it provides. For further information please visit the training hub website or contact the training Hub team who will be happy to help kmicb.kmpcth@nhs.net
Staff can also visit Wellbeing hub :: Kent & Medway ICS (kmstaffwellbeinghub.uk), reach out to one of the trained Mental Health First Aiders or speak to their line manager.
Wellbeing & Resilience Toolkit
This is a free online Resilience toolkit from Beyond Coaching for all NHS employees.
Looking after you too
NHS support on helping you manage your own health and wellbeing whilst looking after others.
A Looking after you Primay Care Coaching Service is also available, details of which can be found here: NHS England » Looking after you: confidential coaching and support for the primary care workforce
NHS Every Mind Matters
Information includes staying well at home, and coping with children being off school, as well as the challenges of working remotely.
Release the Pressure
Free expert advice from trained counsellors is available for every mental health concern, including:
- anxiety
- depression
- low self-esteem
- money worries
- relationship troubles
- stress
- suicidal thoughts
Growth Performance Mindset Plus (GPMPlus)
GPMplus services are designed by Primary Care, for Primary Care. They aim to support individuals and teams working within Primary Care – enhancing wellbeing, culture and resilience. Services include mentoring, education and practice resilience programmes – all of which are available for delivery across the UK.
Wider support
There are a range of support offers and resources in place for our NHS colleagues which suit a range of different health and wellbeing needs, including fitness, financial and more.
Kent & Medway Primary Care Training Hub
Supporting Primary Care Staff – There are a lot of resources available to help support a Primary Care workforce often faced with stress and challenges. Click on the link above to see the options to suit all wellbeing needs, including practical information to provide tips and guidance.
Leading during Bereavement and Complex Grief
Specific resources and guidance to help you navigate leading your teams in the wake of grief.
Facing bereavement at any time personally and professionally is difficult to say the least. Good leadership is at the heart of how you support people in the face of bereavement. In an article for the King’s Fund, Suzie Bailey and Michael West suggest that compassionate leadership is one of the most potent ways in which people can deal with what feel frightening and overwhelming.
In particular, this means paying attention to staff, truly listening to them and hearing the anxieties, stresses, and grief associated with bereavement. This is also about modelling good adaptive leadership when you’re working with uncertainty and complexity, and where you need to support and enable other people, facilitating actions and modelling leadership as something that can be practised by anyone, whatever their role or grade.
Exceptional leadership for exceptional times summarises what this leadership can look like in practice. Consider some of the ‘do’s and don’ts’ for leading and managing your teams after a bereavement (Oskarkilo 2020 written during the Covid-19 Pandemic).
Do’s
- Take your time: when calling on a vulnerable person or the bereaved give the time needed to demonstrate care
- Listen to the story: talking is important for the distressed, use active listening to show you understand
- Provide information: make sure you have relevant written information and guidance to share
- Be creative: although there are strict rules on not spreading infection, be personal and innovate. Show respect: people may have strong religious or other beliefs
- Be respectful of what matters to them
- Accept the depth of their sorrow: grief for some is worse than physical pain, acknowledge the pain they experience
- Have patience: distress makes it difficult for people to think straight, be patient and allow time for answers
Don’ts
- Make assumptions: everyone behaves differently when distressed
- Blame you or others for failing: hear them out, and accept what is true and recognise this response as frustration
- Make promises you cannot keep: be realistic in what you can offer
- Dismiss values and beliefs: people may express harmful thoughts or behaviours, check if they are at risk of suicide
- Don’t forget the children: make sure that children are involved and their needs to understand are met
- Put yourself or your colleagues at risk: make sure you balance compassionate leadership with maintain safety standards and procedures
- Expect to make things better: recognise you cannot stop the pain, but you can help reduce it a little
Employers should consider that everyone deals with death (and grief) differently, and each employee’s needs will be different. Supporting an employee can help them feel valued, reduce their stress or anxiety, avoid or reduce sick leave, keep a good working relationship and keep the workplace productive.
Here are some simple steps to enable you, as a leader, to support your staff
When an employee tells you about a death of someone close to them it’s good practice to:
- offer your condolences
- assure them they do not need to come to work if they do not want to, and make it clear that work should come second
- ask how they’d like to keep in touch
- ask if there’s any important work they need someone else to cover, if appropriate
If someone is upset they might not be able to talk for long, or someone else might contact you on their behalf. If this happens, it can help to follow up with an email, or call them a few days later.
Communicating in a calm, empathetic way can help employees feel supported, and help ease their anxiety about work. Speak to your HR team to ensure that time off is in accordance with policy. In the first few days after a death it is important to communicate with them.
When you get in touch, it’s good practice to ask:
- how they are
- how they’d like to be in contact while they’re off, for example by phone or email, and how often
- if they want you to let others know about the death
- if they want to be contacted by others from work, for example to offer their support or condolences
- if they need any information or support from you, and signpost to any support that’s available to them
- if they’ve thought about returning to work, if appropriate
When someone at work dies it is good practice to:
- arrange letters from the Chief Executive to both the family and the team/service
- tell others at work the person has died, in a sensitive and personal way
- contact the health and wellbeing lead for specific support for the team leader, team and yourself
- offer support to staff affected by the death, some links are provided below (Cruse and ACAS offer specific guidance and support)
- contact the person’s family or next of kin to offer condolences
- let staff know how they can give their condolences
- share details of any memorial, if staff have been invited
- notify HR to ensure all procedures are followed for pay, contracts, pensions and other arrangements
- talk about the death with the team in a safe space enabling all to share their emotions – recognising they may be complex and prefer 1-1 or group spaces. Consider arranging for qualified/trained facilitation.
Where you don’t already have a bereavement policy, you may decide to publish one. Here is an ACAS template. Many organisations are also looking at Schwartz rounds, learning circles, debriefing conversations and other group conversations to support staff because talking things through is important for all.
Where you are concerned about a colleague at risk of suicide
There is a tragic reality that some of us will have concerns about colleagues at risk of harming themselves. Flags to be aware of include communicating that they are feeling much worse, would ‘rather not be here’, have considered suicide or have ideas about how they would kill themselves or they stop taking your calls. It can also be more subtle including appearing restless and agitated, not wanting to be with people, or not coping with everyday tasks. It is important to remain calm and not panic.
- If you are worried about someone may be in immediate danger call the emergency services
- If you are worried about the person but do not think they are in immediate danger encourage them to talk about their feelings and to seek help
- Asking simple, direct questions can help. This includes asking someone whether they are having suicidal thoughts. Ask open questions, give them time and try not to judge
- Suggest they call the confidential staff helpline in blue below. You can also call on their behalf
- Make sure you get support as well. Caring for someone else who is suicidal can be very emotionally draining. You are not alone.
Resources to enable you, as a leader, to support your staff
| RCGP: Sudden Bereavement Support | Support for practices where a leading member of the practice has died suddenly. |
| ACAS: Supporting someone after a death | Support and guidance for policy around bereavement from the Advisory, Conciliation and Arbitration Service (ACAS). Offers guidance on good practice in managing leave, suggested processes for when a member of staff dies. |
| CHUMS Bereavement Support for Children and Young People | CHUMS offer specialist bereavement support to children and young people from 3½ up until their 26th birthday in Kent and Medway. |
| CRUSE – Grief and the Workplace | Empowers organisations to provide sensitive and compassionate support to employees and experiencing grief. |
| BEAD (Bereaved through Alcohol and Drugs) | Provides information and support for anyone bereaved through drug or alcohol use. |
| Child Bereavement UK | Provides support for anyone who has lost a child, and for children themselves who are bereaved. Tel 0800 028 8840 |
| Stillbirth and Neonatal Death Charity (SANDS) | Provides information and support for anybody affected by the death of a baby. |
| The Compassionate Friends | Offers a range of services supporting bereaved parents and their families. |
| Early intervention for trauma | Evidence-based recommendations on early interventions for trauma. This includes the benefits and guidance on debriefing taken from RCTs and NICE guidance based on experience debriefing after traumatic events. |
| Samaritans Confidential staff support line | One-stop shop free to access (7am to 11pm seven days per week). Call 0300 131 7000 or text FRONTLINE to 85258 (24/7). Includes coaching, bereavement, mental health, housing, family, legal, benefits and debt help. |
| Direct.gov. Death and bereavement | Guidance on practical elements of bereavement including applying for probate, registering a death, informing DVLA, benefits, support and tax. |
| Dying Matters | Coalition of individual and organisational members across England and Wales, aiming to help people talk more openly about dying, death and bereavement, and to make plans for the end of life. |
| Mind 2019: Bereavement | Understanding grief and bereavement (including from suicide), how to manage and where to get help. |
| Staying Safe | Offers compassion, kindness and easy ways to help keep people safer from thoughts of harm and suicide, seek support and discover hope of recovery through powerful videos from people with personal experience. |
| Suicide – If you’re worried about someone else (Samaritans) | Guidance including what to look for, what to do, how to have the difficult conversation and general support. |
| Suicide – Supporting someone who feels suicidal (Mind) | Includes who may be most at risk, how to help, talking about feelings, making a support plan and useful links. |
| Suicidal feelings (Mind) | This includes what they are, possible causes and how you can learn to cope immediately and in the longer term. |
| Survivors of Bereavement by Suicide (SOBS) | Offer support for people who have been bereaved by suicide. The have a dedicated helpline, local support groups and many more practical resources. |
| Widowed and Young | Offers support to people under 50 who have lost a partner. |